why do young men contradict every single action they do?

Can't stand how young men these days contradict every single action they do, they say they're good men with morals but go and mess their life up in a different way every single weekend? okay bud. I'm a young man myself and it seriously takes 5 minutes of your time to think and reflect, it takes seconds to decide not to do something stupid. It takes a morally well person to keep shit from hitting the fan. So done with my generation of men, a bunch of pansies who go on the internet to be "tough" when it reality they can't even look people in the eye. Cant hold down a job, broke as hell, musty as hell, no hoes, no future. Just a bitch with extra steps.