Why are men and women at war with each other?

This is mainly on social media platforms like tiktok and I guess reddit too sometimes. All you see on your feed are posts created by women and men dissing each other. “As a man why are you blah blah” or “Women only want this blah blah” it’s just getting ridiculous. We are not meant to be at war with each other we are meant to be a team. The worst part is that it’s usually the tiktokers with a significant audience creating content that cause further division between men and women instead of using their platform to actually unite men and women together like how we are supposed to be.