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ok so we have been dating for 1 and a half years for now. we had the perfect relationship and other people said that we were soulmates for many times. we were eachothers first everything. he was like a home to me and i want to assume that i was a home for him too. basically we had the perfect relationship and we were basically soulmates.
we were hanging out one day and one of the guys in the grade below us (15 M) texted me and said that my boyfriend kissed his girlfriend (13 F). i didn't believe this because we had beef with them in the past and i thought they were just trying to break us up. i texted his girlfriend and she confirmed this but she also called my boyfriend and said sorry for her boyfriend texting me, calling my boyfriend names and telling me that he will take this to the principal so i just assumed that this was all a big lie. the next day i went to the principal and told him all about this so he would know that my boyfriend was innocent but the principal told me that the girl my boyfriend kissed had already told him about this. and she said that she didn't have any consent and that my boyfriend kissed her by force. i told him my pov of the story then left the room.
a few days later we were all in the principals office (me, my boyfriend, our friend (15 M) as a witness, the girl, her boyfriend and their friend (14 F) as a witness)
their story was so messy so i didn't believe a single word they said and defended my boyfriend like there was no tomorrow but the principal told us that he had camera footage of them kissing and my boyfriend started admitting stuff. he told the principal that they went to the place that they kissed long ago and not the day that the girl said. the principal got all of us out and just the girl who said that my boyfriend kissed him. i was already mad at him for not telling me that they went there before so i told him that if he admits it it would be so much easier for him and left.
later that day i said that i wanted to talk to him and we met at our classroom. he tried to defraud the subject but i wanted to cut to the chase so i asked him if he kissed her or nah. he told me that he haf kissed her but it was not by force and she actually got close to him and flirted with him first. i was furious and told him if he was gonna kiss anyone who flirts with him and he stayed completely silent. i left and got upstairs to tell my friends about what he said after this.
a few hours passed by and i wanted to talk to him again because a tiny "i kissed her" was definitely not enough for me. we talked for 2 hours, he explained everything minute by minute and started crying at the end. (ps: he cannot cry on command) i got up to give him a tissue but he thought that i was going to hug him so he got up and hugged me real tight. he was crying so hard and i had never seen him this miserable so i had no idea what to do. i hugged him and we cried for like 20 minutes. after the crying was over i told him that i needed time to progress this and i couldn't forgive him so easily. he told me that he was sorry a gazillion times and that he regretted every minute of it.
even tho our relationship was over the beef with the girl he kissed was not. she was still telling everyone that he kissed her by force and that this was sexual abuse. my boyfriends and my side chicks parents got informed bout this and her parents might sue my boyfriend for sexual abuse. they do not have any proof that it's abuse (the camera footage was a lie for my boyfriend to admit). i tried to act like nothing happened with my boyfriend because i knew he needed emotional support. we are not talking now because of a private reason but i can say that it's for my safety. we can start talking again on wednesday ( 3 days later ). it's been 9 days since i found out and i have been miserable ever since. we tried to talk like nothing happened a few times since then but i don't know how i feel. it makes me really happy and peaceful that i'm with him but there is always a picture of them kissing in my mind. idk what to do i love and miss him so much and i can't imagine my life without him but i know that nothing will ever be like the old times. should i forgive him? if i do how to i trust him again?
(she also admitted to the principal that my boyfriend didn't abuse him and she was the one who flirted with him but her parents doesn't know this so they still want to sue my boyfriend)
(sorry for bad english btwðŸ˜)
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