How to deal with people who don’t like you.

I’m always friendly and genuinely go out of my way to be pleasant. Lately, I’ve been dealing with a couple people (including my supervisor) who don’t seem to like me very much.

I might have some people pleasing tendencies so this is really stressful for me. I think that I’m so scared for people not to like me with the concern that it will validate all my insecurities and fears of inadequacies.

But the biggest feeling I’m having is that I’m not deserving of it, I haven’t done anything wrong and like I said go out of my way to be pleasant. I worry it’s that people don’t respect me. Anyway, do you have any advice on how to deal with this?