Do you care about your social status?

I feel like we as people care too much about how we are viewed by other people. It’s sad how many people think a label defines who they are. Who actually decides what qualities and things determines if a person is a loser or winner? Loads of people today think they are a loser just because society tells them they are. You cannot be a loser if you’re doing what makes you happy (provided it doesn’t cause any harm to you or others around you). I would personally say that for a 20 year old, I’d be deemed as a ‘loser’ and it doesn’t affect me in the slightest. Some of the things that I’m supposedly required to do to not be a loser doesn’t interest me in the slightest therefore I don’t partake in it. I only do what I want and what works for me. Individuality isn’t always such a terrible thing and I think it should be normalised more. We should all be allowed to be our own person and not made to feel like shit over it.