At what point are irreconcilable difference a breaking point?

Bf and I have been dating for just over a year. As time gets closure to our discussed "move in date" (which is potentially moving him into MY home) he has so many fucking stipulations. Like my dogs... he doesn't like them having their own tiny room with their beds in my closest. I said I prefer having them in the room in the event something was to happen 1) I could relocate us all to safety 2) much rather have my dogs on the side of the door I can see in the event I need to shoot through it. I did tell him when we first started dating I would NEVER abandon my animals for someone I've only just started dating... a few months later he implied again to which I said they were here first, this is their home and you don't like it then we don't have to be together. However, we persisted. Now I feel a slight anger towards him, and FULLY understand the saying Must love dogs... thanks for the rant and any advice would be greatly appreciated. Im about to graduate with a bachelor's and have a great job. No children, 2 sports cars, and a farm. I can't hardly believe someone would be shallow about my fur babies.