Why do we even care about being together with another autonomous, diverse, and unpredictable human?

With so many posts of people talking about not needing or wanting a partner, it makes me wonder why relationships were even seen as valuable in the first place when self-love is more valuable and takes you further in life

It's mostly biological makeup and societal influence that shapes our values towards love

. Not our actual autonomy and what we want for ourselves

It seems like nowadays more and more people are appreciating a life without reciprocating love

Because at the end of the day. That shit is based on nothing but luck and chance.

Meanwhile putting in work towards yourself doesn't depend on that as much since it's for yourself, by yourself