What do people do everyday?

I seriously just wanna get out of this rut. I don't know what am I supposed to be doing like I just keep sitting at home not even finding a job nor thinking about getting college education or doing some online courses. I just doing few house chores here and there than I just waste my time more like running away from reality to be on discord Instagram tiktok YouTube as a way to beat time. Like I don't know really what am I supposed to be doing. I easily give up on everything when it gets hard and when I fail I also don't feel like trying again. I think that I don't have the willpower or strategy to win. I see like my cousins and peers my age group already finished college. They landed good paying jobs at well known companies some even moved cities. And I just keep living in same spot for years