What are actual realistic ways for me to love my body?

I'm a 23 man

- I'm 5'0, that's bad

- I have a micro-penis (less than 3 inches), that's bad

- I have autism, that's bad

Amongst other defects that I have on my face and body.

I'm starting like this because I want to set proper expectations, I don't want any kind of gaslighting nor virtual signaling.

Those aspects are objectively bad, and I personally don't like them, I hate them.

So my question, what are actual, not copy and paste, ways for me to be happy with this kind of body? Is it realistic for me to be happy with this body in the first place?

If not then that's ok!!! That's valid, it's not the end of the world, seriously. But if that's the case then I would appreciate advice on how to cope with that, thank you.