Was in a car crash, gf just stood across the street

1 month ago 20

Upon being aware of the crash, she asked if I wanted her to come.

It was not a major car crash but it was my first one. After the crash, I immediately sent her a pic and sent a live location along with landmarks. After she asked me if I wanted her to come, I responded to her that "IDK, Up to you" After the crashed, I was made aware that she got lost, saying that the live location was lagging, which I understand, the landmarks I sent immediately after the crash however were impossible to miss. I understand that she might also be in a state of panic but she had multiple occassions in the past where she would not read my instructions, (one time I was waiting for hours as she was in a completely different place) the whole time I was alone, shocked and nervous, I already called my dad and was waiting for her. Her presence was the only thing I needed at that very moment. It fucking hurts to think about it now but in that very moment I understood how it was to expect someone at "any moment now" as I was looking at everyone crossing the street hoping for it to be her so I can finally have someone I can just hold.

It was not the case however,

After settling the incident with the polic officers and after the incident was temporarily over (As I had to show up a day later to settle it out with the other driver) she sent a picture of her being across the street the whole time. After I responded with "everything was done, I was waiting for you the whole time" she simply managed to pull a pity party claiming that I had no idea how many strangers she asked just to know where I was as the location was bugging. I of course let out harsh words, blocked and dumped her. Am I wrong for just wanting someone to just come to me at that moment and be with me.

Am I being reasonable here?

Does this make sense for someone who claim to "love" you DEEPLY?

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