Hey bros/ladies, hope yall are well.
I was thinking of giving up as a 23 year old kissless virgin. If you scroll down in one of my posts I had a posted my face to get an appearance check and was told I looked attractive but in 2 hours I deleted it.
Also, deleted it because a bunch of people started asking in my dms for d pics and I got cold feet quickly, some people started calling me a model and why the fuck was I posting here as it was for people who needed help.
I've been told irl I must get plenty of girls and been told by other dudes I'm a 10/10. I have downloaded dating apps before but had to pay before I got some actual matches like 20 in 2 hours for 10 bucks per week but they never worked out as the girls would respond with one worded responses and then just ghost me.
Many other things happened even when girls had given me chances on dates they would get bored quickly and look on their phone and just respond with one worded responses.
IRL I started approaching earlier at 19-21 and it never worked as hundreds of girls rejected me irl with cold approach. Then I approached with the friends I made who were my wingmen and that also failed and my friends told me you have the vibe but you just need to understand how to talk to women as its differnet than guys.
Anyways, they all are married now as they were older than me by a few years and already had a bunch of experiences since 13.
So, I wanted to ask should I even give dating apps another shot or should I should I just turn off the tap and keep self improving and give up? Honestly my hand is more than enough for me since 11 and I don't do it much anymore but I don't really see the point of getting a girl because I've never done anything with a girl before and I just let my imagination run wild.
I don't know if I want to change my whole personality to just please someone and I want to say my authentic self. Honestly just a dude who recently doesn't give a fuck and likes to vibe and having a good time by making people laugh is my personality.
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