The thought of marriage disgust me

I never want to be married it seems as though every women that I’ve ever met have this mindset where “the husband must come before everything & everyone” & it’s complete bullshit. I don’t ever want a man coming into my life feeling that he’s above my own children, or he must come first over EVERYTHING in my life that just sounds like too much trouble & a lot of control. Maybe it’s just me I don’t want to offend anyone who’s married especially if you’re happy but at the same time it sounds like torture to me.