So sick of ghosting

Is it that hard to be honest? Literally everyone I'm friends with has a habit of ghosting and some have permenatly ignored me for like no reason. I asked someone if they wanted to go out for cofee they were down and then boom as soon as I follow up and ask them for a day that works they ignore me for months. Like it's so fucking stupid. If you don't feel like talking just tell me. it hurts so much more to just leave me in the dark pondering what I did wrong. I'm generally okay if you don't get back to me in a week but at some point it's just incredibley disrespectful. This generation sucks so much ass. Always complaining about how lonely we are and then treating eachother like npcs. There isn't a single excuse for it that has sounded reasonable.