Long distance relationship

Please guys I need your advice on what to do I'm 21 now but there is this guys I find online in bigo his 30 but my problem with him is that we started talking back in June but in July something happened I was like telling him not to be one sided on the case but he told me "if I need help I should stay with him if I don't ,I should fuck away from him, so I got so angry about that statement and ghosted him for 3 months and he never called me back so in November I called him and ask him why he never called for 3 months I ghosted him he told me he never called because he felt that I'm still angry with him so we got back together in November But my problem now is that he keeps on complaining that I have a anger issue that he thinks that if he brings me to if house when I get angry I will destroy the house and he keeps on telling me this and this is so annoying for because he will be the first person to make me get angry and when I talked back to him he will say I lack respect And I have told him for like 3 times if he can't deal with my attitude he should let me move on and he will tell no that he is not gonna do but everytime he keep on telling me that I talked too much that he is the man of the house not me I love him but he complain too much about me and I'm so confused with my feelings for him