Late Bloomers (those who succeed in their late 20’s or beyond)- do you still feel behind in forming community or friendships

This is my fear as a 26 year old man with pretty much nothing going for me.

I feel like I’ve missed so much due to porn/phone addiction, I’m sure you’ve heard the sob story from people millions of times

My concern is, if I do succeed at 29 or 30, I will still be so far behind the average person. I won’t be able to get into a relationship with a woman- all the good ones will be taken. I won’t be able to make guy friends- they are all occupied with kids.

If this is the case I will be really discouraged. I want to hear real life examples from people who were late bloomers- do you still feel like you missed out on things you will never have the opportunity to get back?