It makes me angry that I have one life and it’s wasted caring for my mother who decided not to prepare for retirement, so now I have to pay the price of her choices😊

My mother had nothing saved for retirement she chose this way of life. Now I’m paying for her choice of not preparing for retirement- by caring for her. Now I cannot have a life of my own (because I care for her) is it wrong to hate my life/ and feel resentment because she didn’t prepare this leaving me to pay the price for her indecision- not preparing for retirement?