Is your life over if you don’t have a career started at 35+

Let’s say you have taken a long journey to get to 35, but have never had a career, are you far behind?

like I am a late bloomer in everything... socializing, going to events/parities, dating, hobbies and yes even career and I feel like a loser.

Everything is at a halt because I can't seem to figure this career thing out and it's paralyzing me. What did you do and how long did you take? just need inspiration because I am so lost. I'm getting older and older and I feel I will never built a family and a good social network because my self esteem and also my situation (trying to live alone and not with roommates)

how are people poorer and in worser situation than me able to be confident and still kill it in life??