In relationships, should you choose excitement and spark or stability?

Do you think it’s more important to be with someone who makes you happy? Or do you think you should be happy by yourself and have a stable and trustworthy long term relationship with someone, where you are both very independent and separate.

Should you choose someone that brings some excitement and joy, makes you feel a lot of emotions, but this could come to an end at any moment

Or someone who is steady and stable, trustworthy and loyal but you always feel a slight emptiness and emotional unfulfilment