I prefer women that are strong and have been through stuff

I've noticed that, the women that have faced adversity like being single for 10 years working 2 jobs to support her kids. those women are hard workers they don't complain. they call you out if you make a mistake ect. those women have patience they'll stick by you. the only thing is these types of women aren't affectionate at all. they don't like hugs. like they said they don't even hug there own kidz and their kids complain about not getting hugs these women gravitate towards me generally.