I hate workplace crushes

After my last workplace crush situation I vowed to myself to never fall for another coworker again, or at the very least cut off any developing feelings for a girl before it festers into an actual crush. You can’t shit where you eat if you don’t have the urge to shit in the first place right? Worked out pretty well until now.

There’s this girl that’s been hanging in our friend group lately and I won’t lie I thought she was cute from the jump, and pretty cool as a person overall. Still I tried keeping my feelings in check and just leaving it at that.

Well lately we’ve all been hanging pretty consistently and I’m not gonna lie overtime I’m subconsciously starting to really fuck with her, beyond just physical attraction like she seems like a cool ass person to just be around, someone I would 100% date seriously. I hate it though, because unless a girl is giving me clear indications that she may be interested too I see no point in holding onto feelings, or risking making the environment awkward asf by asking them out (also to a degree she seems semi-avoidant so I feel like that would just add onto the awkwardness).

Anyways sorry for the long ass post, 2025 got me buggin’ out here. These feelings gotta go.