Humans stupidity

It's been a while since I post but I just want to talk about getting married and having a child ..is it illogical this point to do this commitment right now ? Especially for guys like us who are struggling way harshly then before yeah we are living in women era unfortunately..but it annoys me that some men still want to marry this kind of feminism women's and having children with them yet they cried after because they realized way too late how demon they become after post marriage etc ..so why can some men just work in their self's and having a hoppy or anything to have a good life without the necessity of having wife or childe etc.. Especially during this hell of world that we are all living on it