Getting a life before dating

Rant: After a lot of consideration I’ve realized that I need a life before I date. Yes dating and relationships are something everyone should try to get but when I think about it it’s like what would they get? I have no hobbies, not much life experience besides work and school, spent the last 5 years(3 years on autopilot, 2 years getting out a bad mental state) and that’s it really. There’s nothing really to me because I haven’t developed myself. I want to find out who I am and establish a base before getting into relationships. Once I do I will start to incorporate others into my life. Once I’m done working two jobs I’ll figure out how to live life.