Did anyone else feel more a peace when you stopped telling your parents what was going on in your life?

This is about my mom. Every time I’ve asked for advice from her, she completely avoids giving me advice. She is one of those people that constantly has her phone in her face looking at social media so when I go to her to ask about advice for something, she won’t even put the phone down to talk. Also anything goals I’ve had any life she has always has something negative to say like you are too dumb to do that or you are never going to make it in that. Etc… once I stopped telling her stuff or going to her for advice I’ve noticed a huge improvement in my own life mentally and I feel like I can focus on my goals without have someone being negative about that.