Hi everybody, This is a really random reddit post but I just thought I’d share for some advice and for people to tell me what’s going on/or why this may be happening.
I live with 5 other girls (we’ve all been close since high school and are extremely close). During the weekend, I checked my location of where my friends were. I was out drinking and I had ended up by myself & was just making my way home. I’m unsure if people on reddit have these on for people on their snapchats but I was looking at my snap maps to see if any of my flatties were home at the time. I noticed a guy on my snap maps at my house (who I knew was with one of my friends). I went to middle school with this guy, hadn’t seen him for around 6 or so years until we matched on a dating app.
This was around a couple of months ago, we were barely talking and we hung out once in the clubs so it’s nothing major. We stopped talking and left it at that but was nothing serious whatsoever. My friends & I tell eachother everything, & on Sundays we all have a debrief about how our weekend went. I saw his maps here on Saturday night & I slept for the majority of Sunday as I felt so hungover lol! Anyways, my friend came into my room later on to talk to ask me about my night, I told her and went into detail but she never once mentioned her night, she wouldn’t tell me that she had this guy over although I clearly already knew through the maps I checked. It’s now been sort of awkward? In a way. She’s made it into a fuss, she’s telling my other friends that she thought on Sunday wasn’t the right time to tell me? I don’t understand? I couldn’t care less that she had this guy over & would not get upset about it at ALL. The things that’s upset me is that she’s not telling me, she’s creating a weird and awkward drama for no reason at all! She knows I wouldn’t care, it was literally nothing.
Shes been communicating with my other friends about it & not me! I mentioned to them why they think she’s not telling me but they are unsure of it themselves. I don’t wanna mention it obviously as it’s dragged on a for a couple of days & it’s none of my business. It just sorta hurts that she’s keeping this weird interaction hidden from me & creating it into something that doesn’t need to be done.
I just don’t get it! We are so so close and this has just made it feel awkward as hell. I think she’s aware I might have a sense of him staying but still hadn’t said anything to me about. What do I do??? We’re both being sort of awkward and weird to eachother as I’m clearly hurt she’s not telling me about this stuff and that’s what best friends do and what we’ve always done.
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