Been going through a rough time and this sub has given me great advice. Just wanted to ask however can life get better after 25, if you ruined your past? Anyone turn their life around after 25?

I’ve been at a low point. I’m sitting alone on thanksgiving with no friends, family too far away. Since graduating pharmacy school been out of a job, had to do a part time job, etc before finding one I like decently and is full time. However I wanna do more in my career and feel kinda stuck currently and feel I’ll be stuck forever. I wanna do more with my career but I’m already 26 yo man and not looking good.

I have nothing else in my life. The dating apps don’t work no matter how much I just wanna show a girl a good time. I’m a 26 yo virgin who has to give up on dating, being married, having a family.

I’m also very obese and wanna lose weight and look good for my health as well. I have given up the gym and healthy eating because I’m over 300lbs too late to lose weight. Plus I’m brown and 5’6 so all red flags for women.

I’m just a failure to my folks. I’m a failure In general. I keep holding out this hope that life can get better after 25 but with my failures, red flags, and mistakes I’m not sure. I’d love to hear some good hopeful stories because I’m losing hope. Any stories of hope?