Anyone else feel like they are stuck someone between extrovert and introvert?

I’m a 29 years old and I feel like everyone I meet is either really introverted ; just wants to do dinners occasionally but most of the time have game nights or they want to get on drugs and club until 3am.

I would like to go out ,chat shit and listen to some music /karaoke in a bar and go home at a reasonable time 😂. Where are my non extreme people