1 month ago
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So basically I was getting ready to quit my job but I was hanging put with my favorite coworker and I went into it wanting to either come out with a friend or date and it became clear she wanted to just be friends ver quickly and at considering I've moved recently I honestly needed to start building a friend circle more than a relationship and we get along great.
We've quickly gotten pretty close. Other day we talked for 2 hours. But the problem is I still have a bit of a crush that I have no intention of acting on because that's the boundary she set with us becoming friends so being like "hey let's hang out as a date" would be a betrayal.
Basically there's 3 layers. First off I need to make friends in my area, 2nd layer all the potential romantic thoughts, and the 3rd is I just want to be friends and on every practical way it's just more logical way, what she wants, what I need more, and we vibe great as friends.
With that said I really don't want to half to fuck up my 1st true friend I have regionally because a crush turns into feelings. If it did get painful I would just be honest and move on but I really just want to get over this crush and be friends.
Has anyone been in this situation and how did you get over the crush?
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