A question to the men in this app

So it’s been a week since i broke up with my 3 years ex and the break up was terrible, when he left it was in an extremely disrespectful way ( i would like to keep the details ) and he blocked me except for my spam account, at the same time he kept logging into my accounts each day because he had my passwords and i didn’t change them. So it’s been a week and i believed that right now we both calmed down so at least he would apologize for how it ended, so i posted a story last night and i woke up to him blocking me on my spam account. It felt very confusing so i changed all my passwords because i didn’t understand if you’re done with me like this why do you keep logging to my accounts everyday. Please to the men here can you try to make me understand why he would do such things ?