7 things I wish I had realized sooner in my 20s

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I was stuck for a long time—reading advice, watching motivational stuff, but not really moving. Things only started changing when I locked in a few core principles that actually worked in real life. Here’s what helped:

  1. Understand yourself deeply — not just MBTI/zodiac, but using feedback analysis to spot your real patterns.
  2. Learn the rule of equivalent exchange — life only gives you what your value can trade for.
  3. Master a survival skill — one strong skill = freedom, stability, and confidence.
  4. Fix your physical state — your mood and motivation are tied to brain chemistry. Exercise, diet, and meditation matter.
  5. Kill perfectionism — action > waiting for the “perfect” time. MVP mindset wins.
  6. Start a side hustle — not to get rich, but to build business instinct and see how value really works.
  7. Attract a mentor (Guiren) — skill + reliability + gratitude brings people who can change your life

I break each one down in more detail, with examples and how-tos. If even one hits home, that’s a win. Curious which step you’re working on right now?

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