Why we get disappointed (more often) if we don’t get validated ?

Hello all

Hope you all are fine wherever you are from

As a scientist & philosopher I am curious to seek answers for many questions which books don’t or our surroundings don’t tell us very straightforwardly.

Why do we need validation? Often times I have got into such traps but overtime with more elevated consciousness, I am more content and less reactive or require any validation of my life.

Let’s discuss