When insecurities take over..

Hi. Young lad from the UK.

So for a while now I've been feeling empty because girls don't really pay as much attention to me because of my height (I'm 5'5). I am starting to worry that you know no girl will really be interested in me and would trade me for a 6 foot lad in seconds.

You just kind of feel belittled. I have accepted my height to be fair and there's nothing I can do about it but there's always that knot in my chest every time I fancy someone I always retract from it and say to myself 'they wouldn't give me a chance. I'd say I'm an alright looking boy to be fair, and I know some of the boys that are near enough my height or shorter will feel the same

Our world is so different. I am such a friendly guy I love talking to people. I know I'm probably now gonna get told 'dont focus on girls' or 'get over it' but hey guess what I'm trying. I don't know it feels better to vent out how I actually feel nowadays.

I 100% get the love for tall boys though, if I was a woman I think I'd do the same tbh. So there is no blame for girls on that. You'd never hear a girl say I want a short lad ever and rightfully so.

Thank you for reading this I really appreciate you all for replying and I hope you have a wonderful day/evening :)