What am I doing wrong?

Im a 28 F, trying to make sense of life. I have a kind heart, I love fully, but I cannot find anyone. I cannot even seem to reach talking phase with anyone. i just want my partner to respect me and be transparent with me in every decision. I am satisfied in every other aspect of life I am doing well in career , I am a physician and working hard everyday to save patients. I try to work on my own health everyday. I have a loving family. But my love life seems to be cursed. I try to be on apps but I haven’t found anyone to even talk to , I match with people but idk I feel like Im always initiating and continuing the conversation and if I stop they never text back. Why is this happening. I have been with only 1 man in my entire life. Its been years of breakup. I feel so heavy inside. Idk what is happening. I am at the phase that I am ready to settle down. But what is happening?