I used to be a loner by choice. I rarely ever got lonely. I am very independent and introverted and comfortable in solitude. I enjoy doing things alone like going on hikes or going out to eat.
With that being said, I realized how other people easily get lonely. Just find a friend to do stuff with. Y'all don't have to hang out every weekend but it will definitely get you out there. Y'all can play tennis or disc golf. I suck at tennis but I still play.
Yall can play poker or card games. Even boardgames. Most cities have routine meetups for stuff like that.
As much of an introvert as I am. I still socialize with random people in trails and parks. I even ask them if they want to join me for dinner. A lot of people actually agree to my request. I have made a good friend that way and we meet up once or twice a week for tennis, food, and poker. We also find girls to talk to while we are out and about.
In short, if you don't have a gf and want one. Make friends first. It will make you more interesting and help you pass time.
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