Please share the lessons and values you have learned from this life

Hello everyone. I am a 21 year old girl and I humbly ask you people older and much wiser than me to teach me what you have learned from life. I really want to grow as a person and learn, and even though I know I dont have much experience and I know I dont know much of anything at this age, I want to learn.

For further context if needed, I am not a partier at all and I don't 'have fun' like many my age. I dont have many friends and I don't really do what I guess a lot of people typically associate with this age group. I genuinely dont feel what some people say about 21 year olds and how we feel we know everything, I really dont feel that way. However, I do realize like almost all 21 year olds, I definitely lack experince and I dont know that much. I realize there are many many folks that have way more wisdom and lived experince than me, and I would love to learn. . This is why I turn to all of you, I figure at the very least I can learn vicariously through you people and whatever stories and values you are willing to share.

Any of you wonderful folks that can teach me anything you learned from your years of experience, whether you are in your 30s, 40s or even upto 60s and 70s, I ask you to please share some of your wisdom. What advice do you have for me as a young girl starting to come into this world that you have learned from your own life or just in general?

Please teach me about love, teach me about life and living a truly happy life. Teach me what you learned truly matters. What values did you acquire as you got older? What did you learn made you truly happy and at peace? I want to learn more about this world and how to achieve a peaceful, quaint happy life. I want to think about my future more and live in the present. I want to love and be loved, be resilient to challenges and ready to grow and change and adapt when needed. I want to remain humble but also simultaneously be confident in myself and think wisely. I want to make good choices and I want to continue to learn.

Thank you all, so much for taking the time to read my post and offer any insight. I appreciate it so much, you have no idea. Thank you for taking the time to do this and entertain me. I will try to reply to as many people as I can, but thank you all for your wisdom. Please take care, and thank you again. <3