People Who “Get It”

I feel like there’s people who get it and people who don’t get it. For example if you get it, you won’t question what “getting it” means because you already understand. It’s really hard for me to form relationships and friendships because so many people don’t get it. I have friends who don’t, and i love them and i know they’re intelligent and smart but they just don’t get it. I feel there’s an emotional part to getting it that some people just don’t have. It’s almost like emotional maturity and if you have it vs if you don’t. Some people just get it and some people don’t. I want to see if anyone else gets it on here, that’s all. thanks in advance guys