No there isn’t somebody out there.

I’ve seen a lot of people on here (and elsewhere) talk about their struggles with dating and relationships. How they want to go on dates and what not but nobody wants to go with them. Then I see the comments from others talking about there’s somebody out there for everybody. Honestly, that statement is so infuriating to me. Not to mention that the statement is down right lie. There isn’t somebody out there for everybody. Some people are just meant to be forever single. They can do all of the self improvements to be better but at the end of it all, it won’t matter. They’ll be forever single.

That’s not to say you shouldn’t try but it’s better to know the effort may not matter if you are meant to be forever single. I feel like some of us on here are meant to be it. I don’t have problem admitting that I’m someone who’s meant to be single forever. I’ve gone through the stages of grief regarding it and have accepted it. But I do think it’s best to remind everyone on here that there are some of us who meant to be single forever no matter how much you try.