Never take wrong steps

I am surrounded by so many things right now.life is going tough . I was overwhelmed with my career sadness.and i am in llazy couch all the day .i loved some one in clg days as he told he likes me alot . As of first i avoided him.later the care he shown made me fell for him.1yr 8mnths for that .but now he changed aalottttt . At strt he used to care and make bote of all the imp events in my life and use to look after me .now a days even i am expressing i am not okay .he is less reactive.for his main imp events in life .i took serious and felt like my own events and cared him a lot and use to pray for him .but now he doesnt even bothered .when i ask him y is this happening. He is saying like dont hand on to such things .and saying that i am over reactive ,overthinking.i am crying everyday for those words. But he is msging me in casual way like nthng happened .but i am waiting for assurance and solving those issues. When i finally told him to talk only when we solve issues .he told that " think u dont have any work,always arguing " .i was deeply hurted by these words .so never ever trust a man.and share ur veiws and suggestions .