My aunty is never trully happy about my achivements but she does enjoy my failures.

So sorry I am gonna vent, but honestly I need it.

So I am 20f currently studying computer engineering and I live with my mom(60) and my grandma(87), my aunty(65) and my cousin(45) live together in other house and they are really close to us they come see my grandma and us every weekend since they live 15 min in car, the thing is that my grandma has serious suspects that my aunty feels jealous of us and that she is not glad about our achivements, I did not agree with my grandma but recently I have noticed that she is right.

Recently I passed C2 cambridge exam, my grandma and my mother congratulated me and told me to go tell your aunty, when I told her about she said: hmmm okey, congrats, I am glad to hear that, her happines and glad were unexistent.

But when I have bad knews she is always the first one calling with an exciting voice asking for all the detaills.

2 years ago after my first year of college I lost my scholarship because I had bad grades, first year was tough, when that happened she was the first one to call: Hey, your mom told me you lose your scholarship, why? how did that happened, tell me everything, what are the minimum credits you need for still having it?. She wanted all details, and at the end just said: You are such a bad engineer, I do not think you will ever accomplish it.

But last year in my second, I passed 9 subjects, I passed all the subjects I failed that belong to the first course and more than half of the second one, I called her to tell her she was not happy I could notice that, my scholarship was given back to me and once again she was no happy.

I just wanted to vent because this trully bothers me, I am in a point where I do not want to tell her anything about my life, but my parents pressure me to do it.

Any comment, thought, or adivce is more than welcome.