Loneliness and stop being the problem

3 hours ago 3

Not sure how to put it, but I fu**ing hate my life. I'm in a point in my life (late 20's) where I barely have any friends, And the few I have we are not super close. I don't think i have had close friends in my twenties. I have a few acquaintances, and maybe here and there friends where we can grab a meal and talk a bit, but that's it. I don't have people to hang out on a regular basis, I don't have people to share my wins and losses in life, I don't have people to travel with, I don't have anyone to talk about mundane things and is getting to a point where this feeling is getting unbearable. Even at work, I think there are a few people where we can talk a bit during lunch time and be nice, but I can feel it it's because we are all there together. Because otherwise they would not be talking to me. And I think this is how it happens with most, if not all the people, they don't really like me at all. I'm shy and a bit introverted, but most importantly I think I'm not an interesting person, I'm socially awkward and not really likable I guess? Either way, I know I'm the problem, because it's almost impossible that the amount of people I've met no one liked me enough to become my friend. Should I go to therapy? What should I do? Like should I change my all personality to become more interesting? Should I go out and live more life? Sure. But always alone? It's sad... I don't necessarily hate myself, but I hate this situation, and how I am that is making this situation? But also don't really know what to change? I don't think I'm making any sense, maybe this is just a way to rant....

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