Is it wrong as a 26 year old male to just focus on stacking up money instead of dating?

I'm 26, I've only had one girlfriend in middle school and played around with a female friend 5 years ago. I have slight disabilities. Girls my age are too superficial for my taste. Idk how but I'm likable to older women and they're way less superficial and understand Adulting and the important elements of such things. I'm 26 but 30 to 40+ I'm very likable Ive had older women throw birthday parties for me, buy me gifts for Christmas I got something these older women generally like but currently I'm trying to move up and I started my savings this year gonna do overtime shifts to buff up my savings as weekends pay more.

My beautiful 43 year old coworker most important thing is savings couldn't get a savings previously because my job before that was part time and didn't have enough to make a savings

I live with my grandma - before you say anything oh you're an adult you should be independent blah blah. My grandma is very ill and has a variety of health issues where she blacks out and has heart problems among other health issues. The apartment we have is in my name my name is on the documents.

So I'm trying to stack my money and make sure I have everything I need in case she passes. I'm very independent. Is what I'm doing smart.