Is it weird how some people enter their 40s and still look and feel young and others look bad and up resigning to being “old”..all thanks to mainly genetics and some due to life choices…

Like me for example. I’ve been balding from an early age, as early as 19, got on fin and slowed it down. Well eventually the balding gene won and now I’m bald and in my early 40s. I look old and washed up now…while many of my friends who keep their hair still look great and young. While hairloss in typically cases is mostly genetic, other factors also come into play like fitness, skincare etc. I noticed that ppl with bad genes just kind of give up and get out of shape and stop caring how they look, while people with good genes feel motivated to look their best, because they can.

Now that I’m back in shape, I still look older then all my peers, because I’m bald and honestly I feel like giving up sometimes, esp because I have a weird head shape and look like megamind bald. Life isn’t fair. I feel like I’m mocked for trying and disrespected for being ugly now.