Is it bad to be good?

I don't if the title says it all, but do you often get told that you're "too good" or "too nice" with people, and that people most of the time abuse of you, of your kindness ? (We generally feel that by the end of a bad relationship)

How can we be too good in a world where bad is so easy to comit and most people seem to be in that category ?

When do you say to yourself that now I'm being too good and not just being yourself ?

How do you not lose confidence feeling being so different of other people, even though most of the time you notice that people take advantage of you but you just can't become like them and play their game ?

Did you overcome this ? Did you change ? Did you live with it ? Did it empower you ?

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