Imagine doing the right thing was the wrong thing to do.

Throughout my life I always tried to do the right to do, however when my child was born out of wedlock, I felt that the right thing to do is to be there for my child and participate in her life, and you would think that our government and child services ect act would also like that, as it turned I went to court to get visitation rights and it cost me, $16,000 than an additional $15,000 because my ex would drag me through court every 3 months for b.s. which the judge always through out the case within the first five minutes of court but would order a psychological evaluation until I had spent 15,000 over a 3 year period. Nor would the child service s. Either, roughly 32,000, Wasted. Thanks