I need help to decide what to do

I am currently studying at chemical engineering first year i want to change everything country school even the course to mech engineering i have balkan family they all wants what they wants and dont care our mental health the uni i am in is not that good honestly can i get a job after finishing yes but it is far away from my own town and i cant do anything but study i took 2 extra exam to apply another school in italy which is better than everything but the school i wanted to apply change the score so i cant retake and apply i want to take a step back drop the uni i am in start preparing for the uni i want they have their own exam admission i will have to go and take there since i am eu citizen i dont need visa or anything but money which is i have but my dad said he doesnt support do i need no do i want to stay here no so i want to get back start working study with small steps then leave the job ( my own town in touristic place ) then going to take the prep serious the only problem is my dad and others expect my brother since if i decide to get back i have to live in the same house nothing more i dont expect for money or anything so u guys have any opinion about it