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I’m a man who is around 5’6 and it’s been a rough few years as I’ve spent way too much time on the internet consuming content about dating which has convinced me I have no shot in finding a girlfriend. I know people will say things like “be happy with yourself you don’t need a girlfriend to be happy” but I think in general the purpose of life is to reproduce. I think the ultimate happiness for most people is found from finding someone you really care for and have children with them. So my concern has been that I won’t find that even if I improve everything about myself.
A lot of guys who are my height become women hating incels and I admit I have flirted with going down that path but I really want to change course. Victim mentality is very addicting. I believe I find comfort in blaming my height for my failures with dating and lack of pursuing self improvement. There are times I feel like there’s no point because I’ll never be good enough if I’m being honest but I can’t live like this anymore. My main goal for this year is to improve my mind including what type of content I consume. I’m going to avoid any type of dating content because usually the topic of height is discussed and that’s when my mind goes down a dark spiral.
Anyway I know I need to take my mental health more serious as addicting as being a victim is I need to improve or my life will always be hell. If anyone has suggestions please help
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