Well as the title says, I can't have real sex. Long-story short there were some complications while I was still in the womb and my genitalia came out non-functional.
"You can date an ace person, you can use toys!"
Right, I can do that. Do I WANT to do that? No, not at all.
It doesn't satisfy me, for some goddamn reason I have desires. And I would like to have real sex, with a real person with my own reproductive organ, no cheap tricks, no pity, no coping.
But I can't, no matter how much I pray, exercise or surgery I take that will never happen.
SO
With all of this said, do you have advice on how I can go through life like this? I know that I can't be the only one in this situation, there has to be something I can do to overcome this and be happy even if lonely and unsatisfied. Thank you.
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