17 hours ago
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I always read about how late bloomers tend to marry their first and I’ve always told myself I didn’t mind doing that. I didn’t expect to lose it at 29 though and I do wanna start a family. I’d asked out a lot of women in the past too, none of them wanted to date me before.
I met a lovely woman (31f) recently and she’s a mother of 2. She has made it very clear she doesn’t want anymore children, even after I coaxed her. Her and I had been on a few dates and had made out, but finally started hooking up on the 4th date. I was having performance anxiety a few times but she was understanding. Then, after being able to get hard after a few try, I came too quick. She was ok with it. Then we found our rhythm and it has been amazing. I care about her so much and really wanted her to be my gf soon, it felt like it was going that way. I felt like this was it.
At the same time, I want a kid of my own one day and she doesn’t. I can’t seem to convince her of it. I’m being told by my WOMAN FRIENDS (last I’d expect to say it) not having my own kid when I want one will come back to haunt me.
Would I regret not making it work with this woman to see? Would this be a mistake if I'm already so happy with this woman? It would kill me to break her heart especially after how patient she's been.
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