How to actually not feel frustrated of being sexless and single?

I am a mid 20s man. Despite my life being fulfilling for myself - job, salary, car, body I am single. I don't want to spend my nights alone and have something called a libido. The issue with that is despite communicating ok with people on my job (men, women, young, old) I am not able to get women I meet outside of work's attention for more than a minute. I really want to invite women to dates, then start a relationship with them and have great sex but women don't want to listen me talk for some reason. So I almost quietly accept I will be single and sexless. How to live my best life and be happy and not constantly think how blue my bollocks are.