How do you deal with being an ugly girl in your 20’s? Serious advice only please.

Please don’t say “everyone is perfect the way they are.” I need real advice. I feel like people decide how to treat you based on how you look too. How did you come to accept it and love yourself? Especially as a girl in her 20’s. I’ve tried self love and just telling myself I’m pretty but I get a new reminder almost everyday in indirect and sometimes direct ways.