How do I start my life?

I'm 18 years old since August but don't know how to get a job, get a driver's license or bank account, I don't have a phone number, I'm not sure what career to pursue or if I want to go to college or if I can even afford it. I'm 18 but I feel like I'm behind in life already and I just don't know what to do. I want to be independent but my mom isn't really helping me with that because she's always been very strict and overprotective. I really, REALLY need some advice.